HI!

After taking a looooooooooooooooooong hiatus from writing (on a whole) I'm back. I decided to brush the 4 inch thick dust off this blog too...which was well overdue considering my career choice/goal. *side eye at myself* Anywho, a lot has happened during my 3 year long hiatus...something I may get into at a later date but I just wanted to stop by and say "hi!"
....to no one in particular considering we have zero followers at this present moment...but to anyone that might stumble across this blog by accident I say: HI! *waves hand aggressively*

RANDOM RANT: Immature Grown Ass Men...

ARGGGGGGGGGGGGGHHHHHHHHHHHHH! I'm not even gonna try to take my time and make sure this is written eloquently or even politically correct....I just want to get this off my chest!!!!! I apologize in advance if anything said offends some...
...they're just my thoughts....

I cannot stand it when GROWN ASS MEN act IMMATURE!!! It's the biggest fucking turn off on the planet (...and I mean instant DRY UP!!!) I understand that everyone has their immature moments but when you have more immature moments than mature moments THAT'S A PROBLEM!!!! Temper tantrums and other childish movements are a big ass NO NO!! No grown ass woman is gonna get wet for or even feel proud to have a man who acts like a frigging child. Grown women want need and deserve a man who has control of his life, who can stand up for himself (and his beliefs) and who most definately isn't "follow-botty"!!! UGHHH!!! It's so frustrating especially when you know that they have potential but it's just being wasted because they refuse to grow. As hard as it is to deal with, there is a small positive...an immature guy can one day grow up and become a mature man the minute he opens his eyes and wants to (grow up). It's just up to us to decide whether we can wait or better yet if they're even worth the wait..

...rant done...

Quote of the week...

"When love is not madness, it is not love." 

-Pedro Calderon de la Barca

"Love doesn't make the world go round. Love is what makes the ride worthwhile."
-Franklin P. Jones

"The hardest-learned lesson:  that people have only their kind of love to give, not our kind."    

-Mignon McLaughlin, The Neurotic's Notebook, 1960

 

"You know you're in love when you don't want to fall asleep because reality is finally better than your dreams. "

-Dr. Seuss

...loves this song...

Random Thought:...celebration of love...

Valentine's Day is just a few days away and the "presence of love" is everywhere. Love is being jammed in your face whether you like it or not. Red hearts, roses and "I love you" sweets are being advertised in every store window...there's no escaping it. It's heavily implied by the greeting card companies, lingerie stores and flower shops that you should be doing something really romantic with that "special someone" and if you don't have a "special someone" then you need to find one A.S.A.P...even if it's just for the night.What is it about Valentine's Day that has some people stressing themselves to find the perfect gift and plan the perfect date? I understand it's a day of love and celebrating that love but instead of just waiting for February 14th to roll around to celebrate it; shouldn't we be celebrating it everyday? Yes...jobs/careers, family/children and/or finances are just some of the everyday life responsibilities that can get in the way of most couples celebrating their love everyday or even every week but it shouldn't make us just settle for only celebrating love on Valentine's Day...anniversaries...birthdays...or any other special day. Contrary to popular belief, love doesn't always have to be celebrated in a big way or a materialistic way. It can also be celebrated by back rubs, home cooked meals, or best of all by just spending time alone together. Focus on the love and not the gift...it (love) is powerful thing that can speak volumes on it's own. Celebrate love because you want to and not because your calendar tells you to. Celebrate love daily and love will celebrate you.
 Just a thought....

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"Love recognizes no barriers. It jumps hurdles, leaps fences, penetrates walls to arrive at its destination full of hope."

- Maya Angelou

Quote of the week...

"To live is the rarest thing in the world. Most people exist, that is all." -Oscar Wilde

Epic storm

Just thought I'd share what winter dragged in and left on my deck this week. Half of that was there already before the "epic storm" blew through on Tuesday night/Wednesday morning so it didn't bring much more to this area than we had already been dealing with. It still most certainly resulted in a Snow Day and bought me a ticket out of a test that morning that I has no where near ready for! I think this now calls for a little Spring action though. Green grass, budding trees, chirping birds. It's never overrated.